When Is It Time To Quit

[hammer]

This year i will finish my 18th year gigging at
Senior venues. I had my 83rd birthday Jume 11th. 
I am in good health but often don't feel like going to a gig.
This week I have 5 gigs just about normal for me. Funny,
While playing the gig it is a lot of fun.
In the past I have used Ketron, Roland, Korg, and
Yamaha.  All worked great. But, now what?
I get calls all the time-just can't say no. My
Song list now includes over 4000 tunes so
Variety is not a problem.  Just don't know
What I will do.

Deane. (HAMMER)

[RoyceM]

You are amazing, Deane! Unfortunately, I've got no answer to your question.

I'm 77 and in my 18th year of doing the same as you. Before this month's end I will play my 3,000th event--BUT I'm sure you have far exceeded that tally.

Covid has slowed things a little in my area (Salem, Oregon), but my reduced energy level is fine with that (due to cancer and age). Since I play exclusively very old songs (1800s to 1960s), my audiences likely will suffer attrition about the same time I do. I began playing for "the old folks"...I recently realized that I now I play for my PEER group!

I never dreamed that this endeavor would grow to such a magnitude. It is very rewarding, even though there have been many "slumps" along the way. People connect so much with me that I don't want to let them down.

When to quit? I figure The Lord got me started in this endeavor, so He will help me know when to discontinue it.

I wonder how other gigging members ended their playing adventure.

- Royce

[Strideplayer]

I kinda quit gigging about thirty years ago, mainly being pianist with trad jazz bands. Sometimes we played with a trio or so for senior homes. I found it very moving when one time I saw an old woman, who hadn't spoken for years, quietly mouth the words to 'let me call you sweetheart'. That has stuck with me for years.
I would like to do some solo work if I can decide on a new keyboard. Unfortunately, and to my surprise, the seniors in the community where I am staying seem to only want to listen to hard country western or rock. I am truly baffled. I'm also pushing the big 90.

Strideplayer

[RoyceM]

Deane, I just listened to a bunch of your MP3 music. It's easy to understand why there's such a clamor to book you. I'm sure you are loved by your audiences!

I find that working too steadily for too long wears me down emotionally (and physically). Pacing myself is important for my own self care, otherwise I'm not motivated to play.

- Royce

[jtrue]

I'd say when schlepping all the gear to the gig leaves you too tired to perform with enjoyment, it's time to stay home and play for friends, family and yourself.  Perhaps this can be delayed by calling the local high school music teacher to connect with a student who can help with the grunt work and gain some knowledge from the experience you can share.

   j.